The courage speech Opening : Launch of New Building

Aassalamualaikum warahmatullahiwabarakatu

First of all, let us praise to the almighty Allah Swt. Because of His blessings we are able to attend the launch of  this building. Secondly, may peace be upon to the Prophet Muhammad Saw. who has guided us from the darkness into the brightness.

 I would also like to say many thanks to the people who has supported this event. Especially to the people who has given their extra power constructing this building. They are the planner, the architect, and of course all the workers. It is an honour for me as the owner can work together with the great people like them.

Ladies and gentleman,

No dream can be real without trying to make it real. And to make it real, there are too many process that we passed. Its not an easy process though. It is a very long and hard process. When the process was on going, we face many problems coming up from the external and also the internal. But we all know that process dont lie to the result. As we can see now, this building explain our hard working and that long process.

3 moments when we are facing the public

1. Give a presentation

The moment when I really have to give a presentation in front of the public is a thrilling moment for me. It still  happen to my self until now. Im going to tell you what trully happen to my self. When I deliver a presentation in front of so many people, I feel I always lost my self control. I can easyly forget the content that I need to say. And that thing making me say nothing but eeeeee.... although I know that it should be not sounded when you are giving a presentation in front of so many people. Because when it happens, the concentration of the audience that you build from the first opening will be fallen down at one time. Terrible right? But trust me, its not only that. Losing my self control when giving a presentation makes me hurry to deliver the content. I think its so annoying for the audience to hear. And of course, Its an embarrassing moment for me. I dont even know whether this is also happened to many people. But what I trully know that I feel really nervous when I realize there are so many eyes were staring at me at that time. The eyes that radiate many things for me. It could be hope, displeasure, admiration, or maybe passiveness. I know I need to end this thing up. I cant let this thing just happen to my self. I have decided to always keep lerning from everthing and familiarize myself to speak in public. I promise that one day I will be able to control my self and persuade the people on what I present.

2.

Participate in seminar or meeting. I am an auditory girl. I love hearing a good thing such as in seminar or meeting. The moment when I can Participate a seminar or meeting is always an exciting moment for me. I always feel very lucky to have the chance. Thats why I will pay attention to the speaker. And try to understand what he said. Sometimes when the content is very interesting for me, I do not hesitate to give a question in the last session. And for me it is really an honour when the speaker wants to answer it. Attending a seminar or meeting always recharges my energy. When it is over I feel like having extra energy to live my life.

3.

Meet new people

I always feel excited to meet new people. I dont doubt to know some of them. Im the typical of a simply girl. Thats why I dont really like to choose a certain person to be my friend. But I know that not everypeople suitable for my character.

In that moment I will try to make a good first impression but still as myself. I will not try to be fake for them so we can enjoy to make friend for the next time. I feel getting a new experience to meet new people. And knowing many people is a good thing for the social life.

Advice for them who always feel nervous in the 3 moments above

As a social creature, meeting and connecting to other people can not be avoided. In other sense, we can not live without other people. And the familiar thing to succeed our social life is by communicate. The situations above demand us to be able to communicate with other people well. It is a must to avoid a negative feeling when we start to communicate. Such as the nervous feeling. People with nervous feeling when in the situation above will not get a good social life. Other people will try not to respect them and even feel pity for them. Thats why, we have to decide to throw that feeling away.

First, We can start with our self. We must love our self first. By loving ourself, our self-confident will come out. So communicate to other people can be a pleasure thing for us. And the other people will respect us.

Second, We need to have a wide insight. By having a wide sight, we can understand many things well. It makes us not afraid to face the difficult situations. Because we can control it and even solve it.

And the last but not least is beautify our appearance. The main assessment against someone is to look at his appearance. Thats why, our appearance is very important. We need to pay attention to how we dress. A good appearance can make a good mood for us. So the people around us will have a good impressions about us. The consequently we enjoy communicate and meet any people